Living What We Learn: Applying General Conference Principles to Dating and Partner Selection

Every six months, General Conference gives us a spiritual reset

General Conference always offers more than uplifting messages...it gives direction, clarity, and renewed resolve to live better.  At UT Match, we believe those messages aren’t just for married couples, but they are for everyone who’s preparing to love, commit, and build something eternal. 

So how can you bring Conference insights into the way you date and choose a partner?

1.  Date with Eternal Intent

We have learned and are reminded that marriage is sacred.  It is part of God’s plan, not just a milestone in life.  When you date, don’t just ask, “Do we get along?” Ask, “Can we grow spiritually together?” or “Would our goals align in a temple-centered life?”

2.   Seek Spiritual Compatibility

Choose someone who inspires you to live your faith more fully, not less.  Shared belief and shared practice create unity that lasts.

3.  Talk About the Future

Many messages from General Conference focused on the importance of family.  When you are getting to know someone, share stories about your own family, such as how you grew up, what shaped you, and what you value.  As your relationship develops, those conversations can naturally turn to what you each hope your future family will look like.  The right person won’t shy away from those discussions they will want to be part of them.

4. Build Spiritual Habits Together

Incorporate spiritual connection into your relationship from the start.  Attend the temple, watch General Conference, or talk about messages that inspire you.  When you invite the Spirit into your dating life early on, your relationship gains a stronger foundation and one that will help you stay united when challenges arise.

5.  Stay Anchored in Christ Through Challenges

General Conference reminded us that life will come with trials and relationships are no different. When life gets hard, choose humility, forgiveness, and faith.  True strength comes as two people turn to the Savior and work through challenges together, side by side.

General Conference isn’t just a weekend of inspiration, but it is a guide for building lasting, eternal relationships.  As you date, let gospel principles help shape your choices.  Look for someone who not only brings joy to your life, but also inspires you to grow closer to the Savior.

At UT Match, we go deeper than basic compatibility.  We focus on helping people build genuine, lasting relationships grounded in shared values and a clear vision for the future.